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Prime Day Deals: My Personal Watchlist for Big-Ticket Golf Gear

I almost never buy big-ticket golf gear at full price.

Not because I'm trying to be cheap about it. It's because Amazon Prime Day exists, and I've learned to be patient.

Case in point: my rangefinder. I bought it during a Prime Day sale, and I am so glad I waited. I remember unboxing it and taking it out on the course for the first time. It definitely takes some getting used to… actually shooting the pin instead of guessing is its own little skill. But it made an immediate difference. And I saved real money getting it during the sale instead of paying full price whenever the mood struck me.

That's the whole philosophy behind this post. Prime Day runs June 23–26 this year, and if you've been putting off a bigger golf purchase… a new bag, a push cart, a rangefinder, a GPS watch… this is genuinely the best window of the year to pull the trigger.

Here's exactly what's on my personal list.

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How to Know When You're Ready for Golf Shoes (And Which Pair Is Actually Right for You)

A few weeks ago I finally retired my very first pair of golf shoes.

Not because they were worn out. They still had plenty of tread and life left in them. I got them in early 2023 when I was still figuring out this whole golf thing, and they served their purpose: they gave me more stability on the course than my regular sneakers ever did, and honestly, that alone was a win at the time.

But here's why I let them go: they weren't waterproof.

And the longer I play golf, the more I understand that waterproof isn't a nice-to-have. It's the whole thing.

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Everything You Need to Know About Golf Gloves (Including the Details No One Talks About)

When I first started playing golf, I knew you were supposed to wear a golf glove. I just didn't think I personally needed one right away.

I wasn't playing that much. How much could it really matter?

Then my left hand started getting irritated. A little calloused in spots. Nothing dramatic …. just enough to make me pay attention. So I finally bought a glove. And within one round, I understood what I had been missing.

Your hands are the only connection you have to the golf club. That's it. That's the whole argument. Everything else - your stance, your swing, your follow-through - starts with your grip, and your grip depends on your hands feeling secure on that club. A good glove is what makes that happen.

And here's the part that still gets me: the average golf glove costs around $15. Fifteen dollars. For something that directly affects every single shot you hit for the entire round. It might be the most undervalued piece of equipment in the whole bag.

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What to Pack in Your Golf Bag for a Smooth Round

The first league night of my 2026 season did not go according to plan.

It had been raining on and off all day — warm, but wet. The kind of muggy May evening where you're not sure if you need a jacket or a towel. The golf pro at the course basically mandated leagues were on. No rain-out, no rescheduling. That's in the agreement with the course — their call. So the choice was simple: show up or lose the week.

I showed up. And for the first five holes, honestly? It was really pleasant. There's something kind of peaceful about a lightly spritzing round when the course is quiet and the air is cool.

But with no setting sun to warm things up, by hole seven my fingers were getting chilly and my grip just wasn't right. And that's when it hit me — I have rain gloves in my bag. Have had them in there for two seasons. They were sitting right there the whole time.

I completely forgot they existed.

Several years in and I'm still surprising myself.

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The Secret to Golf Progress Nobody Talks About: Having Support Along the Way

I spent my first year of golf trying to figure everything out on my own.

I watched YouTube videos at midnight. I read blog posts about grip and stance. I practiced at the range by myself, trying to remember what that one instructor said in that one clinic six weeks ago.

And you know what happened? I improved... very slowly. Painfully slowly. And I almost quit multiple times because I felt like I was doing it wrong but had no one to ask.

Then I found my first golf mentor - not a formal coach, just a woman in my league who'd been playing for five years and was willing to answer my endless questions.

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How to Read a Scorecard: Terms Every Golfer Should Know

The first time someone handed me a scorecard, I stared at it like it was written in code.

Numbers in boxes. Abbreviations I didn't recognize. Little symbols and lines I couldn't decode. And everyone around me was filling theirs out like it was the most natural thing in the world.

I nodded like I understood, then frantically Googled "what does slope rating mean" in the golf cart when no one was looking.

Here's what nobody tells you: scorecards contain a wealth of information that can actually help you play better golf. But first, you have to understand what you're looking at.

So today, I'm walking you through exactly how to read a scorecard - what every number, abbreviation, and symbol means, and why it matters for your game.

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Why Now Is the Perfect Time for Women to Start Playing Golf (The Data Will Surprise You)

I need to tell you something that might change how you think about playing golf.

You know that voice in your head that says "Maybe I'm too late to start" or "I should have learned this when I was younger" or "Golf isn't really for women like me"?

That voice is wrong.

Dead wrong.

In fact, if there has ever been a perfect moment in history for a woman to start and continue leaning in to playing golf, it's right now. This year. This season.

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My Favorite Day of Masters Week Has Nothing to Do With the Leaderboard

My favorite day of Masters week is not Sunday.

It is not the back nine drama. Not Amen Corner. Not watching someone drain a putt on 18 to win the green jacket.

My favorite day is Wednesday. The Par 3 Contest. And I think the reason says everything about why I love this game — and why I think you will too.

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Group Golf Clinics: Your Secret Weapon for Affordable, Social Golf Education

Private lessons are absolutely valuable - I stand by everything I blogged about investing in good instruction.

But there's another way to learn golf that honestly doesn't get enough credit: group golf clinics.

These clinics are how I started my golf journey, and looking back, I'm not sure I would have stuck with golf if I'd jumped straight into private lessons. The group setting gave me something I desperately needed as a beginner: proof that other women were struggling with the exact same things I was.

So if you're looking at the price of private lessons and wincing, or if the idea of one-on-one instruction feels intimidating, or if you just want to meet other women who are learning golf, let's talk about golf clinics.

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Your Masters Watch Party Guide: Recipes, Decorations, and a Free Download That Will Make You the Ultimate Host

The azaleas are blooming at Augusta National, Rory McIlroy is defending his green jacket, and I am already planning what snacks to make while I watch every single minute of it.

Golf hits differently when you actually play it. I notice the shots now. I feel the nerves. I understand what it means to stand over a ball with pressure on — even if my pressure is a ladies' league round and not Sunday at Augusta.

If you want to host a Masters watch party and make it feel like an actual event, this is your guide. Decorations, food, the Azalea cocktail recipe, and a free download to keep your guests entertained all weekend.

Let's do this.

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Finding Your Perfect Golf Instructor: Why the Right Fit Matters

"I need to take some golf lessons."

If you've said this to yourself even once in the past month, you're already ahead of most beginner golfers. Seriously - acknowledging that you need instruction is a huge step that a lot of people skip, thinking they can figure it out on their own through YouTube videos and trial and error.

But here's where a lot of women get stuck: they Google "golf lessons near me," get overwhelmed by the options, and never actually book anything. Or worse, they book with the first instructor they find, have a mediocre experience, and conclude that "lessons just aren't for me."

The truth? Lessons absolutely ARE for you. You just might not have found the right instructor yet.

After organizing golf clinics and leagues for the past four years, I've worked with more than 15 different golf instructors. I've seen the ones who make beginners feel like rock stars and the ones who make them want to quit. I've witnessed teaching styles that click immediately and ones that leave students more confused than when they started.

And here's what I know for sure: choosing the right golf instructor isn't about finding the most qualified person on paper. It's about finding the person who can actually help YOU learn.

Let me show you exactly how to do that.

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The Complete Guide to Finding Your Perfect Golf League

I'm walking you through every type of golf league that exists, how to figure out which one matches your skill level and lifestyle, and exactly where to find leagues in your area.

By the end of this post, you'll know exactly what to look for - and you'll be ready to actually sign up instead of spending another season thinking "maybe next year."

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Spring Golf Season: What to Expect When Outdoor Golf Returns

Let's talk about what's actually going to happen when you step onto that first outdoor tee box, what's going to feel different (and why), and how to mentally prepare yourself so you can actually enjoy this season instead of spending April and May in a anxiety spiral.

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Inside Our Winter Indoor Golf League: 10 Weeks, 3 Divisions, and Countless Memories

We're eight weeks into our 10-week season at Swing Fit Golf Club in Blue Ash, OH, and what started as a way to keep a club in our hands during winter has turned into something so much more.

Some women joined with minimal golf experience – just a handful of group lessons and maybe a scramble or two – admitting they felt intimidated but excited for some weeknight fun and learning. Others confessed they'd been "roped into this" by friends and considered themselves hack golfers who'd only played in scrambles, hoping to have fun first and improve as a bonus.

This is who joins an indoor golf league: women who started playing during COVID and never wanted to stop. Attorneys and campus recruiting managers and OBGYN residents who work full-time and somehow still carve out Wednesday nights for golf. Moms with teenagers learning to drive. Women returning to golf after years away. Self-described "hack golfers" and "seasoned beginners" (I love that phrase, Liz) who just want to get better.

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Your Guide to the 2026 Professional Golf Season: What to Watch (And Why It Matters)

Let's get you set up to follow the 2026 season. I'm not going to overwhelm you with every tournament and every player. Instead, I'm giving you the highlights - the tournaments that matter most, the players everyone's talking about, and enough context that you can hold your own in any golf conversation this year.

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Want a Golf Trip But Hate Planning? Here Are 5 Organizations That Handle Everything

What if you don't have a ready-made golf crew to take a trip with? What if the idea of coordinating tee times, accommodations, and transportation makes you want to curl up in a ball? What if you're single or your usual friends don't play golf and you desperately want the experience of a golf trip without having to organize the whole thing yourself?

This is where curated, professionally organized women's golf trips come in, and they're absolute game-changers.

I've been following several organizations that run these trips, and I'm hearing more and more women in my community asking about them. So I did a deep dive into five organizations organizing women's golf travel, and I'm breaking down everything you need to know to decide if one of these is right for you.

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Golf Trips 101: How to Plan Your Own Girls' Golf Getaway (Without Losing Your Mind)

It's a warm afternoon in September. You're standing on the first tee at a course you've never played before. Your closest girlfriends are with you, everyone's laughing about something that happened at breakfast, and you're about to play 18 holes at a beautiful course in a place none of you have visited before.

After your round, you'll sit on the patio with cold drinks, rehashing the best (and worst) shots of the day. You'll play another round tomorrow and then you'll get out and explore the town. The next day you’ll just hang out by the pool and talk about everything and nothing.

This is what a golf trip can be.

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Just got new golf clubs? Your First 30 Days Game Plan

So someone got you golf clubs for Christmas.

Maybe it was a thoughtful gift from your partner who's been trying to get you into golf for years. Maybe you dropped some not-so-subtle hints about wanting to learn. Maybe your kids pooled their money together for a starter set because you mentioned it once at Thanksgiving.

However they got under your tree, those clubs are now sitting in your garage or spare bedroom, still in the box, giving you equal parts excitement and intimidation.

I get it. Because here's what nobody tells you about getting golf clubs: the clubs themselves are actually the easy part. It's everything that comes AFTER that can feel overwhelming.

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Golf Vision Board 2026: Setting Goals That Actually Stick

Every year around this time, I see the same posts flooding my social media feeds. "New year, new me!" "This is MY year!" And look, I love the energy. I love the optimism. But by February? Those same people are radio silent about their goals.

Here's what I've learned from my own golf journey and from watching hundreds of women in the Queen City Links Ladies community: the problem isn't the goals themselves. The problem is that we're setting goals without creating a vision for what success actually looks like.

So this year, I want you to do something different with me. Instead of just listing goals, we're going to create a golf vision for 2026 that's so clear, so specific, and so exciting that you can't help but follow through.

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The Ultimate Golf Girl Gift Guide: What's Really on My Wishlist This Holiday Season

Can we talk about holiday shopping for a second?

There's something magical about finding the perfect gift for someone. You know that feeling when you stumble across something and immediately think, "Oh my gosh, she would LOVE this"? That's the energy I'm bringing to this gift guide.

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